Currently listening to attention by charlie puth
Hey FAM,am back here like I never left..(lol)…..I hope ur week is going on well?…..Today I’d b doing sth quite different….. I am no relationship expert tho *smiles*,…..many of us (including myself) are guilty of wat am about to share….I Hve learnt a lot from this nd wld b sharing it with u….
OPENESS IN RELATIONSHIP.
This has to do with expressing ur real feelings,in a relationship u shld b able to express ur feelings without fear or intimidation of any kind.You should be yourself.you can get angry at him/her and say wat u really feeling abt an unpleasant situation or word spoken by ur partner.you can cry or laugh as u feel like without pretense.where emotions are bottled up and not expressed,the relationship will b one of pretense; its just a matter of time before it runs into big problems. Even if things look great on d outside,such unexpressed feelings compound with time and bcom greater than wat they initially were.
For instance ur partner may make promises he/she never keeps but bcos u don’t want to cause any strain in ur relationship, u decide to swallow ur resentments.However, as time passes by,these resentments will begin to grow in ur mind poisoning other areas of d relationship that are okay. You may begin to question the genuineness of his/her professed love for u and eventually bcom emotionally disconnected from ur partner.To avoid such problems,learn to express ur feelings in d very best possible way u can without hurting ur partners feelings.
Pretense makes d relationship shallow. You will feel there is something wrong but u may not be able to put ur finger on it.one person’s pretense will cause another to begin to withdraw commitment to d relationship. It will create doubts,uncertainties nd fears with may eventually ruin d relationship
Successful relationships are built on truth nd integrity.Both partners are not ashamed to reveal who they really are.They even go as far as talking abt d mistakes they Hve made in d past. Secrets Hve a way of being discovered or exposed by someone. Its better to confide in ur partner rather than ur Partner finding out from outside sources…..
I hope this helped someone…
Culled from praise George’s MAKING IT WORK.
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