Friendships change

The fact that our lives change so much thats inevitable our friends will. Wen u look bck over ur life – school ,the places u used to live -there are all sorts of friends whom u were close to then but now have little or no contact with. It happens to all of us. You can’t keep up with everyone uve ever formed a bond with,all of this is normal. There’s no reason to feel guilty or resentful towards ur friends Wen life takes u in different directions. It may b for a little while or it may b permanent. It’s just wat happens and it’s no ones fault. It’s no good beating urself up over it. I have friends I used to know whom I really miss, and others whose company I njoy at that time ND now am happy with just d memories .
We can always pick up, but we see less of each other nd we Hve diff concerns ND interest that we once did….and sometimes we just find out that a certain friendship his doesn’t work anymore. Perhaps uve changed or maybe ur friend has or ur friends Hve personal reasons of their own.
Sometimes u just need to make a conscious decision to separate urself from this person. They’re no longer contributing anything positive to ur life, nor are u to theirs, nd d state of ur friendship is looking permanent. Wats d point……. It can b upsetting Wen a good friendship dies but u’ll only make it worse if u keep trying to hang on to Sth that has gone. Friendship is a two way thing ND generally if it doesn’t work for one it’s not really working for d other.
Some friendships are made to last and others u only need for a while…..

Till nxt post…..hve a lovely friday