NEMO QUOD NON HABET

Hello beautiful Pple…….. How’s ur Monday going???….While thinking of Sth to post today,the statement “NEMO QUOD NON HABET ” which is is a Latin maxim came to my mind (thanks to ACC 211)…it means that “you can’t give wat u don’t hve”.i read a book Nd some articles over d weekend which gve me a deep understanding of it. This statement applies to love, trust, value, honour, belief etc. Learning to give ourselves the gift of love value ND forgiveness makes it so much easier to give to those we care about. We may b thinking this statement is only obvious to material things but it also applies at every level of our being.

Many of us are unable to get what we desire in life, especially such things as love, because we are unable to create d necessary conditions within our own being to Hve Wat we need to create d necessary external experience……..we Hve to somehow bcom Wat he desire to experience e. g if we can’t love ourselves in d way we need to b loved we can’t give love to another.

We have to love God first with all our heart ,ND then love our neighbours as we love ourselves. We Hve to love God,accept ND love ourselves b4 we can give love to others

You cannot give away Wat u don’t have…. We can’t claim to love other Pple Wen we don’t love ourselves. We need to accept ourselves embrace our personalities,our imperfections & weaknesses….. The more love we Hve d more love we give ND that makes d world a better place

Be 100% honest abt who u are, how u feel &wat u feel…..we shld Stop hating ourselves to d things ure not ND give credit for everything we are

That leads us to tips on SELF LOVE

.Tell urself wat u love abt you:pickup a pen and paper list all d beautiful things u love abt urself,recognize ur abilities and potentials and believe in them.

.Focus less on winning d approval of others……u don’t need d permission of others to live. Do you for u

.Distance urself from those who bring u down…..bring d right Pple into ur life

.Forgive urself (our pasts)……Get bored with ur past its over……Forgive urself for wat u think u did or didn’t do and focus on wat u will start doing.

.Start making d changes u need to make…..work on urself

.Do wat makes u happy, life is too short for negativity

.Pay attention to ur life as ure living it.live intentionally

Events will come nd go,Pple will come and go but a true love for urself will always remain with u wen u nurture it.

I hope someone learnt one or two things from this post.thanks for reading God bless u

References;

Mark&angel harklife

Michelle De ville

Erin lanahan

Joyce Meyer